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Jew Crew Reunion

Wednesday, December 15th, 2010
Some of the Jew Crew members before leaving for college (2008)

Some of the Jew Crew members before leaving for college (2008)

In religious school, it was about who had the best Bar/Bat Mitzvah party favors. In middle school, it was about who was dating who. In high school, it was about who could get into the best college. In college, we don’t quite know what the big goal is.

Flashback to religious school in 2003: A bunch of friends and myself were in a group called the Jew Crew. Come college, the twelve of us had dispersed to places like Penn or Yale, always dropping a “hello” or “Happy Birthday” via Facebook for the past three years. Always being long distance but never isolating ourselves. But this winter break, it’s all about to change. As I sat back and turned on my television the first day of winter break, I realized that break would be a bust unless I spent it doing something memorable. Something vintage. Then it came to me, almost like an epiphany.

Need an idea for how to make your winter break out of the ordinary with a twist of Judaism? Problem solved.

A Jew Crew reunion.

Sounding off the Jew-dar, I called up one of the crew members to sign off on my idea, and messaged the team.

The letter started off:

“Three years into college and we all still haven’t met up, I think we’re slacking. Since winter break is coming up I think it would be great to get together and catch up — Jew Crew style :) .”

Not as big as a Bat Mitzvah but not as lame as a night-in during break, it’s about time for the tribe to get back together. Too frequently do we take advantage of having friends and loved ones living so close to one another.

The Naïveté of ‘Generation O’

Monday, November 1st, 2010

“Young voters say they feel abandoned” is the title of Sunday’s New York Times article about the disillusionment that followed the Obama campaign.  We couldn’t get enough of Obama back in 2008.  He was new.  He was grassroots.  He was hip and cool, and  he won 66 percent of the 18- to 29-year-old-vote because he promised to enact universal health care and  end the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan.

I know people who took off that fall semester to work on the Obama campaign. We were all  emotionally invested in this newcomer who seemed to represent what we wanted for America.  His rallies had the allure and atmosphere of rock concerts. On election night at Vassar, people stormed the quad with cigars and cheap champagne, shouting “Yes we can!” and  singing the patriotic American hymns they had abandoned during the Bush years.

The reality, however, is that this infatuation only breeds angry disappointment. I never gave in to the Cult of Obama, so once I started to realize that Obama couldn’t keep his promises, I was disappointed but not infuriated.  My age group, according to the NYT article, feels differently.

The president, for example, appeared on “The Daily Show” last week for the first time since taking office, and his visit did not inspire the rabid fandom of fall 2008. The show could have been a platform for reinvigorating young voters, but instead Obama used it to make excuses for why he couldn’t achieve his agenda thus far. He could only do so much because of the recession, health care reform was groundbreaking, you can’t change Washington in 18 months, etc. At the end of the show he put in a plug for people to  vote in the elections, but he didn’t have fire.  The audience cheered, but it also booed.  When Stewart gave the president ample opportunity to hoist himself onto his soapbox, it didn’t happen.

Now that we’ve seen what Obama can’t do and the promises he hasn’t lived up to, Democrats and liberals have once again become their skeptical selves.  Political apathy has crept over the Democrats, and I’m no different. I’m disheartened and disenchanted with the American political process.

In less than 48 hours the House will become Republican, and we’ll see what happens with the Senate.  Obama’s two-year window is officially over, and us college students aren’t hawking the Obama tee-shirts, bumper stickers, and pins like we used to.  We were young, we were naïve.

But we also shouldn’t be surprised that Obama didn’t fulfill our wildest hopes and dreams.  Our choice should not be between the infatuation of 2008 and the apathy of 2010. While President Obama’s first eighteen months may have been a big let-down for some of us, the next two years don’t have to be.  We can choose to be realists, or we can choose to believe that our government can work at the speed of light and with the efficiency of a supercomputer.  The decision is yours.

A Whole New, Scary World

Tuesday, October 19th, 2010

Always behind the rest of the world, Israeli universities are finally in session. Everyone is back to school, back to “normal” college life. Everyone, it feels like, except me.

When I would picture myself finishing college, I would imagine the great sense of accomplishment I would feel as my professor handed me my diploma at graduation. I never imagined that I would feel anything but a huge sense of satisfaction (okay, maybe a bit of relief too). I didn’t take into consideration that I would suffer from ‘college withdrawal’.

When I was younger, all I wanted to do was be a college student. When I got to college, all I wanted to do was graduate. Be finished. Not have to owe more papers or seminars (=Israeli universities’ version of a B.A. thesis). No more finals, running to class, taking notes, boring lecturers, the list goes on. What I didn’t realize, is that the greatly heralded (at least in my opinion) “what happens next” actually does come next.

I didn’t think I’d actually miss school until I logged onto Facebook on October 10th (the first day of college in Israel; always a week after sukkos). My newsfeed was pummeled with statuses like “first day of classes”; “back in the law library”; “anyone have notes for Prof. X’s class?”. Suddenly, I realized that I don’t have syllabuses to print; papers to write or finals to cram for. I don’t have college anymore.

It’s weird having a whole new reality to get used to. It makes me kind of wish I was back in school…

L’shana tova: a year in strange and uncomfortable places

Friday, September 10th, 2010

I’m a new face here at New Voices. None of you know me, and I don’t know any of you yet.The first thing I want to do is say that I hope your New Year has been sweet so far. Because let’s face it, shall we? For some of us, 5770, in many ways, totally sucked.

I left teaching Judaic studies to figure out why it so suddenly felt so hard to teach, driven by conflicts and feeling like I didn’t fit anywhere. I didn’t fit with friends, with family, least of all with my own Jewish community. I rediscovered a gem of wisdom I had known once already–many of us don’t feel like we fit, and question our authenticity as Jews–and that where I needed to go was back to college. And this is why I’m back in classes; I’m an undergraduate student again, slowly investigating that feeling of alienation, of being an outsider. Sometimes I’ll talk here about my own struggles with ‘fitting in,’ and sometimes I’m going to talk to you, with you, about news that covers that topic in a Jewish way. It’s my hope that I won’t be the only voice talking here, that I’ll be able to bring you other voices and perspectives of other Jews I know going through these same struggles.

There’s a long tradition of wrestling with angels in our religion, of questioning things. So, on this New Year, when our public and private and religious schools are all starting up again, and we’re all downing Rockstars to stay awake in class, this is a space where I’m going to question, and wrestle, and talk.

Something I was struggling with in my role as a Judaic studies instructor was where teachers fit inside the synagogue, how we function as part of the community. I don’t have any children of my own. I’m under thirty. I’m divorced. Those are all things that make me struggle to find a fit in the community, but made me feel even stranger as a teacher. I wasn’t like the people I taught alongside. I wasn’t like the parents of my students. I had previously felt ‘at home’ as a faculty member in other posts, despite being a new, young teacher. Being childless didn’t matter so much to me. The particular teaching position I’m mentioning cast all my differences to me incredibly stark relief: I was not like other people, and it showed to me every day I was there. Part of that was probably the recent divorce, but some of it? Some of it was real. It was a mutual inability to really understand, to know where the other was coming from. So I finished out my contract, and withdrew from teaching. One thing led to another, and I’ve thrown myself into journalism instead, heart and soul. I don’t know if I can teach again, till I better understand that lack of fitting in, that bone deep hurt of feeling like a stranger. There’s a whole laundry list of reasons I could give for why I don’t ‘fit in’ easily in places, and they can all be considered valid. They’re all real parts of me. But why I’m here, why I’m in journalism, is an awareness of that relationship between self community and place—and feeling more often that not, a sense of being on the outside. Not everything I’m going to explore is going to be cozy for some people—eating disorders, race relations, sexuality, divorce, a whole itinerary of uncomfortable places—but I’m hoping I’ll understand more things, in the end. This is college, we’re supposed to wrestle with the crazy and weird and the hard.

May your new year be full of learning, and an openness to exploration.

The Reading List: Holler Liberal Israel!

Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

You thought the progressive voice in Israel was dying and that progressive policy couldn’t happen? Well, check out today’s Reading List, my doubting friend:

In what may be one of the biggest long-term steps to coexistence in the land, Israel is now requiring Arabic language education across its school system. [Ha'aretz]

A new liberal Israeli magazine, +972, launches with such badass left-wingers as Didi Remez, Noam Sheizaf and Yuval Ben-Ami. [+972]

Bloomberg continues to be compellingly righteous in his defense of Park51: “We would send a signal around the world that Muslim Americans may be equal in the eyes of the law, but separate in the eyes of their countrymen.” [HuffPo]

A professor tells it like it is to his students: Wake up and fix what’s wrong with your schools and your society. Now is the time to act. [SameFacts]

Does Saudi Arabia have the bomb?? [The Scroll]

“Another Campus Leader, Another ‘Anything is Possible.’”

Friday, November 13th, 2009

Last week, the Twitterverse was all a-tweet with buzz from the GA. Live-tweeting by countless people and organizations left those of us at home still able to feel like we had a front-row seat. Just take a look at this post by @EstherK on My Urban Kvetch.

Of all the tweets tagged #ga09, I think my favorite was from My Jewish Learning (@jewlearn), who quoted a Hillel leader as saying, “Another campus leader, another ‘anything is possible!’

It’s true! College students are, by nature, the way of the future. But this is especially true within Judaism. Jews are still struggling with perceived problems like intermarriage and apathy that are leaving our numbers dwindling, not to mention a complete overhaul of what it means to be young and Jewish. The Jewish counterculture is nothing new, but they want to be heard more than ever. We’re moving toward postdenominationalism and new ways of defining our own Jewishness. (How are you defining your own Jewishness as a young Jew? Share your story on The Kibbitz Network or with jewishyouthstories AT gmail DOT com.)

What does that all mean? I think, more than anything, these new forms of Jewish expression (think HEEB, JDub, Jewcy, NewShul, PopJudaica, etc.) can be scary to our parents’ and grandparents’ generation. Infusing “hip” with “Jew” can seem to delegitimize thousands of years of tradition and culture. But that’s not what we’re doing–we’re simply taking ownership of our own culture and religion.

So how do campus leaders come into play? Because we’re the ones that are taken the most seriously. The ones among us that are active in Hillel, Chabad, synagogue youth groups–and publications like New Voices–have the unique ability to be young, progressive and powerful from within already-respected institutions and organizations. These forums were set up for young Jews by previous generations for this very reason: to make a difference.

Don’t let the opportunity slip by. Get active on your campus and step up to make a difference. Define what it means to be young and Jewish today. Host forums about intermarriage, invite Holocaust survivors to speak, run classes to teach young Jews what they didn’t learn in Hebrew school. Prove to the older generations that the future of Judaism is in good hands. Speak up! I’m doing it here. Where will you take a stand?

(And all you tweeters out there, follow me! I’m @_ashleylauren.)

Hillel: Past and Present

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

Hillel is something that we all have most likely scene and/or participated in during our times at college. Yet what is it? Jewishenyclopedia.com, that well-known source of Hebraic wisdom, recalls the rabbi Hillel, who taught his followers to imitate “his love of peace….his love of man…and…leading mankind to a knowledge of the Law.” Since the time of that rabbi, Hillel has evolved into an organization supporting Jewish life on campus, and is indeed much more than that, with its celebration of Jewish identity and bringing together of all elements of our religious life into a community. How does the organization match up to the rabbi?

The organization itself is devoted to helping “students find a balance in being distinctively Jewish and universally human,” as its website, www.hillel.org, declares. I doubt that distinction was made in the rabbi’s lifetime. Judaism in his time was his life—or what would develop into modern Judaism. The worshipping of G-d, the following of His teachings, and the furtherance of His community were what he tried to further, so that he became “embodiment of the religious and moral teachings of Judaism.” The rabbinic tradition of modern day owes much to him after the exile of the Jews from Israel—the maintenance of the moral teachings taught by the rabbis in select communities kept the Jewish tradition alive all over the world.

But what does it mean to be “distinctively Jewish and universally human”? To me, it means maintaining a balance of oneself and of otherness. As Jews, we’re often conscious of the fact that we are, and have been, a minority for millennia. That fact and our distinctive religious practices mark us apart from others. Our Jewish identity is something that has been preserved for so long that it marks us as the heirs to the things that G-d promised Abraham and the forefathers of Israel. Indeed, we are “distinctively Jewish,” too, for we each follow our own brand of Judaism with a unique twist. One can be a follower of any number of divisions within the faith, but each individual has a personal relationship with G-d that one that echoes Jews of the past; each person is “distinctively Jewish” in their own way in their own take on the religion. Here, the teachings of the rabbi Hillel come into practice. He advocated leading men to a study of Jewish law—yet, no matter how many rabbis or sages would study the law, each interpretation would be different.

Individualism must exist, though, within the context of everyone else’s world. Being “universally human” means, to me, to be a part of the world at large. We cannot sequester ourselves in insular communities and must make ourselves part of the secular world to spread our good faith and good will. We must maintain peace, whether religious, political, or of any other kind, between different groups, all of which are just as human as we are. Forgive others’ faults and keep your own faith strong in order to follow the rabbi Hillel’s recommendation. True self-confidence in one’s faith and Jewish identity will promote a sense of harmony between groups without pressing that faith upon others; we can encourage others to maintain a sense of personal peace, too, of any kind.

The other command of the rabbi, to love one’s fellow man, echoes in the sense of community that Hillel does foster on campuses. Bringing Jews together from all different denominations in common practices, both secular and religious, can strip away apparent differences and emphasize the similarities between our student lives. I especially appreciate when the organization co-sponsors multi-cultural events with other religious or ethical groups; the sense of campus pride and student cooperation makes me proud to attend my school.

In the end, no one can follow every teaching letter-by-letter. Nor are those rules the only ones that Hillel espoused. But I think that, if he looked down at the organization that bears his name today, a lot of his followers would do him proud.

To Hillel or Not to Hillel?

Friday, September 25th, 2009

Going to a Catholic, Jesuit college does leave Jewish student life with a bit to be desired. Don’t get me wrong, I love it here. Being in any kind of faith-based community, even if it’s not my own, creates a warm environment and an interesting forum to expand one’s religious horizons. Still, though, it’s important to have a sort of home base of like-minded people within your own faith to go to for things like holidays, cultural experiences, religious observances and plain old-fashioned good times.

My school has a small but enthusiastic Jewish students group, but lacks the presence on campus to provide a really strong Jewish experience to students. Luckily, I go to school in New York City, never far away from a new and interesting Jewish adventure. I’ve spent a lot of my time at NYU’s Hillel, The Bronfman Center for Jewish Student Life, getting involved in their activities, publications and Shabbat experiences. Not because I don’t have pride in my own school’s Jewish presence, but because we have never seemed quite able to provide things on such a grand scale as NYU.

That is, until today, when I heard the first mention of our own Hillel. Apparently, we’ve had one. For quite a while. And it has lay dormant due to lack of student interest, apparently. So now, as an executive board member of my school’s Jewish student group, my peers and I have been approached about renewing our ties with Hillel. Would students be interested? we were asked. My immediate reaction was “OF COURSE!” but I know the response will vary by student.

To me, Jewish life is Jewish life and all Jewish life is good. To others, some things are just “too Jewish” – or not Jewish enough. I’ve spent time at Reform and Conservative synagogues, in Shabbat services led by modern Orthodox rabbis, in conversation with strictly cultural Jews and in classes with traditionally observant Jews. I’ve learned to take everything with a grain of proverbial Jewish salt, understanding where each movement is coming from and learning what each Jewish perspective has to offer. Others, however, are sometimes scared of Jewish movements that are not their own, afraid perhaps of being sucked in.

I don’t see this being a problem with Hillel, or with Hillel being a presence on our campus. I am not concerned that Jewish activities will suddenly become “too religious” or, on the contrary, that rituals will begin to be taken more lightly. Rather, I think a strong Jewish presence on campus will provide increased awareness and understanding, among Jews and non-Jews alike.

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According to its Web site, Hillel “provides opportunities for Jewish students at more than 500 colleges and universities to explore and celebrate their Jewish identity through its global network of regional centers, campus Foundations and Hillel student organizations.” What could be better, really?

Opponents may have concerns that a strongly-affiliated Catholic institution should not be housing an organization that so strongly supports another religion, but I don’t really see that as a concern here. The Jesuits

are wonderful, open-minded people willing to support the growth and education of others, even if it’s not within the Catholic Church. Plus, I would think that religiously-affiliated institutions would be more willing to provide opportunities across the religious spectrum for observant students of any persuasion. But perhaps this is wishful thinking.

The bottom line is that I am unsure. I’ve never seen Hillel as a question posing potential roadblocks before. So tell me, what has your Hillel experience been like at your college?